"If something scares you in an excited way, (something that gives you energy) - that's a good sign. BUT IF SOMETHING IS MAKING YOU MISERABLE AND DRAINING YOUR ENERGY, PLEASE STOP. Life is telling you that is not the path for you." - Derek Sivers
When Self-Discipline Leads You Astray - Recognizing the Wrong Path
Self-Discipline & Choosing the Right Path
Hey everyone! Today's topic delves into a crucial aspect of self-discipline: knowing when to let go. While perseverance and dedication are essential, blindly pursuing a path that drains your energy might not be the best use of your self-discipline.
Recognizing the Signs
Remember when I tried to build a certain company. I lacked technical knowledge and hated sales, the core aspects of the business. Initially, I viewed my difficulties as challenges to overcome with willpower. But the constant struggle drained my energy and joy. It was a clear sign that this path, despite my initial goals, wasn't meant for me.
When Self-Discipline Becomes Counterproductive
Self-discipline thrives when applied to goals that energize you, even when challenging. If your path makes you miserable and depleted, it might be time to re-evaluate.
Here are some signs to watch out for:
1. Constant negativity and frustration surrounding your goals
2. Dread and low energy when approaching tasks
3. Feeling like you're constantly pushing uphill without progress
Your Interactive Exercise:
1. Reflect on your current goals. Do any of them fall into the category of "energy drainers"?
2. If so, consider what insights this might offer regarding the alignment of your goals with your values and interests.
3. Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments. Let's support each other in navigating the journey towards fulfilling goals.
Theoretical & Practical Tip:
Theory: Explore the concept of intrinsic motivation and how pursuing goals aligned with your personal values leads to sustainable motivation and joy.
Practice: Create a "goal happiness meter." Assign a happiness score (from 1-10) to each of your goals. Consider adjusting or letting go of goals that consistently score low.
Today's Takeaway Thought
Self-discipline isn't just about grit and pushing through hardship. It's also about listening to your inner voice and recognizing when a path isn't serving you. Sometimes, stepping back and re-evaluating your goals can be the most empowering act of self-discipline.
Your Call to Action
Have you ever had to let go of a goal for the sake of your well-being? Share your experience in the comments!
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